As parents, it is only natural to be worried about their engagement both inside and outside of tutoring lessons. Many students will be very engaged and enthusiastic in their sessions until it is time to go home and listen to their parents to do their tutoring work or school homework and they are resistant.
One effective strategy to overcome this is to establish a consistent weekly routine that is easy for both students and parents to follow. I recommend a visible weekly schedule where both tutoring work and regular work can have allocated time slots; such as having a weekly chart on the fridge. By doing this, children can track their responsibilities while simultaneously developing a sense of structure and accountability. The key here is to make the routine clear, predictable and a natural part of the household environment, but also including any other regular events such as sporting games and family events that are intertwined with the child’s academic commitments.
This approach helps to maintain the flow of enthusiasm inside the sessions to the follow-through required for doing the work set at home, as the child will understand when it is time to focus on each task. In doing so, it makes it easier for both parents and children to stay on the same page and erases any possible mix-ups of when work is to be done.
Having a dedicated routine helps children to develop a sense of independence and maturity by not having to be told when to do their homework. When they can visibly see their tasks clearly labelled in front of them, it provides a structure and routine to follow. It also helps parents to stay involved in the process and to keep track of the work their child is doing so they can highlight to their tutor where they may need extra help without appearing as overbearing to their children.
At the end of the day, a clear and consistent weekly routine can help to create a sense of accountability and independence that ensures students stay engaged and on track with their academic responsibilities without feeling frustrated or less-inclined to disagree with parent’s constant homework reminders.
Sarah Constantinidis