After tutoring Maths for a few years, I’ve realised something important – success in Maths isn’t just about formulas, rules, or right answers. It’s about mindset. And behind that mindset is something even more fundamental: trust.
Many students come into tutoring with a bit of fear around Maths. Maybe they’ve been told they’re “not a Maths person,” or they’ve fallen behind and now associate the subject with frustration or embarrassment. I’ve seen students freeze up when faced with a problem they don’t know how to solve – not because they’re lazy or uninterested, but because they’re afraid of being wrong.
This is where trust comes in. If a student doesn’t feel comfortable making mistakes in front of you, they won’t take the risks they need to grow. On the other hand, once they realise it’s safe to get things wrong – that we want them to get stuck so we can figure it out together – their whole approach changes. They stop asking “Is this right?” and start asking “Why does this work?”
Over time, you see the shift: they go from passive to proactive, from guessing to reasoning. But that shift only happens when the tutor-student relationship is strong.
Building that trust isn’t about being overly serious or pushing through more worksheets. It’s about listening, showing patience, and being encouraging. Celebrating progress – even if it’s just remembering one small step in a method – goes a long way.
At its core, Maths tutoring is about helping students rebuild their confidence in how they think. When students feel safe and supported, they’re more willing to wrestle with hard problems – and that’s where real learning happens. Maths is about problem-solving, but the first problem we often have to solve is the student’s belief in themselves.
Pasquale Simone Mendoza