As a tutor (and previous student), I see many parents that want to help their children with their work but aren’t sure how to. The maths might look different, or it might be complex grammar they haven’t seen since their were in junior school. The desire to support is there, but the confidence isn’t.

Here’s the good news: you don’t have to know the answers to be incredibly helpful.

Homework isn’t only about getting the right answer, it’s about building thinking skills, independence and resilience. Even if you’re unsure about the content, you can still create the conditions that help your should succeed.

Start with structure, set a regular homework time and provide a quiet, distraction free space. A consistent routine reduces stress and helps children mentally prepare to focus for long periods of time.

If your child asks for help and you’re unsure of the material, rather than try to explain, encourage your child to ask their tutor! After speaking to their tutor who is extremely well versed in the topic, will help your child clarify their own thinking. Even if their tutor is for a different subject, it is more likely that they will still be able to help rather than not, and the worst that they can tell you is that they’re not sure, but they can ask another tutor who specialises in the problem area! You’re supporting the process, not supplying the solution.

Most importantly, praise effort. Recognise persistence, focus and improvement. Your encouragement builds confidence far more than perfect answers ever could.

Sarah Constantinidis