If a person were to list their expectations of being a tutor, saying ‘increasing a child’s confidence’ would not be one. I think this is an aspect of tutoring which is not discussed enough. Whilst our jobs are primarily to educate, education cannot come without confidence, and a belief that a child is even smart enough to learn.

There’s something truly special about being part of a child’s learning journey. While I can understand that there is a curriculum which needs to be followed and tests which need to be studied for, the most valuable tool a tutor can give to a child is the belief that they can learn. They can study for a test, or complete an assignment, or answer difficult questions.

Education isn’t just about academics. It’s about shaping character, building confidence, and sparking curiosity. When we encourage kids to ask questions, think creatively, and explore their ideas, we’re giving them tools they’ll use for life. And honestly, there’s nothing more rewarding than seeing a shy child grow into someone who believes in themselves.

Of course, it’s not always easy. There are days when patience runs thin and progress feels slow. Sometimes you can see the potential so clearly in a student, but they are unable to see it themselves – which can often be the most frustrating part. But over time, it is almost inevitable that progress will happen.

At the end of the day, teaching is about planting seeds in a garden you might never see grow. But even if you don’t see the growth, the journey was meaningful all the same.

Maya Weizman